For the Benefit of All Concerned

It seems to me that the greatest gift we can give to one another is really listening for the best in each other, our perfection, our beauty, our differing perceptions, and through listening for the best in each other, eliciting the best from ourselves. We could call this being “Source” for each other. It is not for me to say what another's best might be, yet it seems to have very similar characteristics from one person to another, namely: joy, relatedness, confidence, love, self-expression, all in a uniquely expressed freedom of expression that catalyzes other's Joy. Seeing the best, looking for the best, catalyzes the best and all involved are uplifted and see possibility.

This is the type of “Sourcing the best”, if you will, or simply “Sourcing”, which one experiences when with extraordinary leaders, meaning to say, people who have done the work to allow Source to express through them. My own mentors have been such people, and their “teaching” from this awareness has been what has empowered me to, through my own continual growth process, transmute and distinguish my understanding of my own false personality, such that authenticity has a chance to emerge: powerful, happy, free. This transformation then hopefully allows me to resonate Source into my world, in other words, empowers me to have the best chance to make a difference, and then others are catalyzed and resonate into their world, etc.

I don't think "I" actually "Source" anyone or anything, rather reflecting on Source as a possibility allows It – Source, Absolute, God, whatever name we choose to call It - to make Itself known through me, use me as a conduit, and when I'm truly present, let it express through me to the extent that I have the capacity and understanding to align with It, surrender to It, catalyzing me and hopefully others toward what they have to contribute to the world.

“To give is to receive”. It has to come through us first to be expressed, so we experience the gift of It’s Peace before we can bring it to our worlds.

May we all continue to grow and learn and have compassion for ourselves and others, for the benefit of all concerned.

Stillness

"No one can see their reflection in running water.
It is only in still water that we can see."

~ Taoist Proverb

A friend asked me this week, "How do you get to inner stillness?" I thought it was an interesting question, since stillness isn't actually a place to get to, but rather a whole eternal internal infinite dimension out of which our life experience and the third dimension arises.

Taking our attention off of the cacophony of the external world, taking our attention off of the noise of the daily routine, taking our attention off of the drama of everyday life and the incessant inner monologue of the intellect, returns us to stillness.

So many of us love to be in nature. Being in nature elicits stillness from us, because nature reverberates Stillness, and, like a tuning fork, if we stop and listen to the quietness of nature, whether in our backyard or, taking in the beauty and quietness of a vista view like the one above, the reverberation of nature catalyzes that Stillness realm within through the tuning fork of its own Stillness. Stillness is not static, it is alive and pulsing with the music of beauty and joy.

Take time to be awed. Take in the perfection of beauty - it is everywhere - in the hummingbird hovering in front of you and then disappearing like a bullet of rainbow, or in the common daisy flower or in the countenance of your dear friend or in the timber of the voice of your beloved.

The great saint Muktananda was asked by a disciple, "Master, there are so many books that teach ways to meditate! Which way is the best?" Muktananda replied, "Close your eyes."

How about giving it a try?

Stop.
Sit down.
Close your eyes.
And listen for the Silence of Stillness.

The Power of Love Expressed as Listening

Not-Knowing: The Power of Love Expressed as Listening

One of my ongoing questions is: "What am I not seeing?" Whenever I enter into a dialogue with a client, or put myself in a seminar series or a course for ongoing growth and development, I forget what I know in a sense, so that I can hear newly. I practice “getting amnesia” regarding my intellect and memory and then I do my best to listen from the place of “not-knowing”. From this vantage point I always get a fresh perspective, and I am then open to other’s points of view, am willing to be a neophyte, and so I always "see" a new way of considering a previously well-rooted and oftentimes well-grounded concept. With high intention to get an insight about one issue or another, I find that pretty much anywhere I look will do if I am listening for what I don't know.

One of the obvious conversations I have been exploring and reflecting on, is the commitment many of us have to positive global transformation. Global transformation inherently implies a need for listening to the logic of other cultures, a deep respect for the different points of view of others. Given the way each of us views life, given our varied pasts and what we have made them mean, given our years of education and whatever cultural exposures we each uniquely have had, each one of us is in effect, a different culture.

What would happen to communication if we actually listened to one another as if we were each a different culture, replete with our own values and ways of operating that were grounded in a logic perhaps distinct to ourselves, but nevertheless valid and understandable? Communication would have the possibility of effortlessly becoming dialogue: more listening than speaking.

... Now, what if we were to listen to our own intellect and acquired knowledge in the same way? What if we were to listen to the inner silence of what we don’t know, the inner wisdom of “not knowing”, with nothing on our minds but a complete curiosity for what we haven’t been hearing? It is as if we have been listening to the cacophony of our own thinking with such an enamored fascination that the flute music of inspiration has been essentially drowned out. Yet when we can turn our attention away from that educated inner monologue, what can emerge from the stillness is a distinct resonance of wisdom. Implicit in this resonance is an answer to the question that has been raised, an emergence of a solution to the problem, a new realm of possibility that is equally-everywhere-present but which has been obscured by our own attachment to what we know. …

In the early 1990’s I was a member of SIETAR, the Society for International Education, Training, and Research, created by the founders of the Peace Corps. The strategy utilized by the most effective interculturalists of the day was the strategy of entering into a culture with no expectations or assumptions, but rather with reverence and a listening for what the culture was speaking not just verbally, but non-verbally. In this way the most effective of the interculturalists were the most malleable, open to assimilating into the culture due to the capacity they had developed within themselves to suspend their own knowledge and ways of behaving. They aligned with the resonance of the new culture much as an instrument allows its own vibrational rate to be catalyzed by a tuning fork.

Being catalyzes Being.

So, listening for what we don’t know could be a universal strategy, a globally transformative strategy, because the very nature of not-knowing calls for one to be present in the moment with no attention paid to one’s personal thinking from the past: beginner’s mind. …

~ Laura Basha, Ph.D, (excerpted from the award-winning paper:

"The Creative Process: A Portal to ‘Not-Knowing’, the Non-Verbal Language of Transformation", published in the 2010 Journal of The Conference for Global Transformation)